Going Beyond Comparing to Understanding - BK Shivani

Instead of complaining and criticizing do something which you feel it should be like. Never say anything to anybody unless you can do it better. If it is not your quality then your words will not work. Right energy will create miracle first understand, accept and then do it and then ask them to do it. 

Past sanskars plays crucial role with what you are now. We are not able to understand other person. If you don't heal Sanskar will carry forward and as it goes on it will become stronger. The only one think we carry forward from birth to birth is Sanskar. Understanding other person is very important. Compassion is missing. 

Compassion for what they are feeling now. Complete understanding of the prospective of the others. Soul consciousness is very important. 

Two options,

• Criticize and deeper the sanskar.
• Help them to get out of his sanskar.

I understand that soul is not being healed. Accept them as they are. Can I live the whole day without complaining anybody? Feedback & request is OK but complaining is damaging. Criticism, comparison and control 4 c.

Going Beyond Criticizing and Comparison -It is not about what you say it is all about how you say.

Criticism and Comparison is not comfortable for anybody. The one who is criticizing is also not comfortable. So, we need to understand damage is from both end. In fact the person who criticizing what the energy he feel and what the energy he receive. They giving me advise. The one who is giving me is not giving with the right energy. 

If he is feeling bad you can not do good for him. You sent the right vibration and the other person not feel it is not possible. The intention must be very pure. This is very important and difference between advise and criticism. 

Critic-Quality of the work. We need to be critic. Review give our feedback. This was not done right. Criticizing-Hitting to the person. You are wrong. 

So, much violence is there through criticism it creates very deep wounds. You need to very careful that are we creating positive environment proactively. First appreciate them for the quality he has and other task he did good. This will build up self confidence and power. 

When we receive energy we do any of the one with energy,

• Receiving/Absorbing-I consume it and feel heart.
• Reflect it-Give him same energy.
• Transform the energy-I transformed energy by accepting that person considering his sanskar and sending the pure vibration in terms of energy.

It is not about what you say it is all about how you say. You are sending energy continuously and words less often. What are you thinking about them. Most of the time when you thinking about others you are very critical. It is lots about how we are feeling inside for others. We should not criticize or compare anybody with anyone. Habits are meant to be change when we don't get right result. Originally peaceful soul. Anger is very damaging for you and surrounding. 

Soul consciousness is the root answer to cure decease easily. See each individual in its true nature and not acquired sanskar. Instead of criticizing and comparison to understanding the soul. And then helping them to heal their sanskar. That will create right energy for transformation.