Thursday, July 31, 2014

Going Beyond - Controlling to Influencing - BK Shivani

A lot is happening inside. When we accept people and stop judging them our energy will be in harmony. You didn't listen to me that is why you are fail. It is only selfish when their doing is your happiness. For example sit like this and I will be happy only if you sit like this. If you don't do it like that way I will not get disturbed. If my intention is his/her growth/development/nourishment etc... I will not get heart/disturb. If you get disturbed and send vibrations result will be conflict and both are not comfortable. My stability will give me the power to understand them/situation and it will give them the power to change. 

Internally be stable and externally give the opinion you want to give. -Very important. Accept that right now I am absolutely fine with the way they do it. Meditation helps that my state of mind is not dependent on others. This can be taken in every aspect of life and situation what ever we do with one we can do with every one the formula remain same like maths formula. Work on my self remain stable and they can do what they want to do. I am only controlling my self i.e. taking charge of my self. My thinking will not change whether they obey and don't obey me. If you disturb when other person don't listen you have to work on your self because that is in your control. When it hearts it is controlling and now when I remain stable it is influence. 

Acceptance means we are comfortable with their present sanskar and the way of working and ready to work on it from the next moment i.e. future. Rejection is focused on the past, the mistake they made. 

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