How to change Sanskar, Desire and Mood?

What is desire and why it is not good?

How to resolve issue creates in mind?

1. Diminish our desire. When there is no loss there will be no pain.
2. Comparison always create sense of loss. Spirituality teaches each soul is unique, own strength etc... We did karma's in the last births. We all are unique because we have personality crisis. Accepting my self and maintain my self respect but if we compare my self with others. There will be pain. 
3. Face your emotion. We talk about healing when we talk to doctor and when we talk to family we discuss about decease. Take knowledge start working on it. I don't need anyone else for it. 

They should come on time and work should happen smoothly. I want them to work on time and it is my desire. And when it doesn't happen, and then I am not going to be happy.

Desire and Discipline are two different things. Checkpoint is desire will create disturbance inside and discipline will not. People should work professionally but it should be my mind perceived them to be. Everybody is different. The main reason for sorrow is unfulfilled desire. Finish all your desires. We understand that desire lies in all physical things but actually desire is inside as well and it is the right one to take care. 

Most important thing is finish desire. Don't create scene of desire. This is a shuttle checking. Simple things like when my son grows up he should take care of me like this. When this doesn't happen like this it creates pain. Because it becomes difficult to accept reality. In case we got what we did not want it is loss and it is pain. Let them happen as it is and don't create desire. I will be comfortable if we haven't created it in the mind before. When ever we have negativity we have some unfulfilled desire. 

I am (aggressive, angry, low IQ is not correct identity) peaceful, pure, positive, powerful, blissful soul. Don't make it your identify, 
3 Golden rules to go beyond and accept things as they are.
A belief system of habit do not die soon. We can change habit with new powerful habit. Two things happen simultaneously constructing and destructing. But focus on construction, destruction will take place automatically. 

Criticism, judgmental is a habit. Awareness with morning meditation is a solution.

Daily meditation -it connects me with the core who I am. We were identifying. It is truth and hence we can experience it. Silence the conscious layer of mind and pull 

that things out of subconscious mind. When we decide to change habit intention is good but the method is not right. I normally late for the things. Today I will be absolutely on time. Affirmation is the language mind can understand easily. We haven't implanted the seeds for the right habit. Unless you implant the seed of new habit. Sit in silence. Just focus on the habit you would like to create and not the one you don't like.